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Liu Siyi has now consecutively updated daily for 1715 days, walking alongside young entrepreneurs in China, growing and prospering together. Now, I am sharing the fifteenth installment of my adventure in the United States. Liu Siyi has finally set foot on American soil, which marks the beginning of his two-month journey in the US. During this time, he will wholeheartedly experience, learn, and comprehend every aspect of America, actively engaging in deep exchanges with the locals.
His goal is to objectively record his observations and, after careful consideration, compare the differences between China and the US, while also visiting the American internet and artificial intelligence industries and the Chinese entrepreneurs there. These records are meant for self-improvement as well as to inspire all readers. Let us commence this journey of no judgment, only authentic experiences!
First, words and actions should be consistent. Idle talk without action and silent endeavors are both erroneous behavior models, leading to losses. A common phenomenon in Chinese society criticizes those who are all talk, perceiving them as smooth talkers without action, without realizing that silent actors are also problematic. The same applies to love and work. If your love is not expressed, how will the other person know? If your efforts are not made known, how will others pay attention? In both the professional world and the realm of emotions, those who self-admire but are unwilling to communicate often end up facing harsh punishments.
In marital relationships, spouses need to continually communicate to validate the other’s love and care, which is more influential than practical actions. Similarly, in the workplace, employees should let others, especially superiors, know about their progress, project status, and any significant developments. Humans are social animals yet full of selfishness; if you do not actively express yourself, others may not care about your feelings and achievements.
If a person is brave enough to express themselves and earnestly put in the effort, they will be seen, heard, and ultimately valued. Those who choose to remain silent do not gain any attention and must face the consequences. If you are not willing to speak up, at least let your actions speak. Being introverted or extroverted is not an excuse; there are many ways to express oneself, and silence is your choice.
Second, some people’s journey through life is filled with setbacks, but they often don’t understand why. There are two types of people who often find themselves in worsening situations, possibly without understanding the reasons behind it. One type includes those who frequently argue, are aggressive, and attack others with their words. Such people with violent tendencies, whether verbal or physical, instill fear and are thus rejected by society. People are already tired enough from daily life to deal with those who are prone to conflict.
The other type includes those who like to bother others and exploit friends’ resources. These people tend to only remember you when they need something, disappearing at other times. True friendship is based on continuous and sincere communication, not one-sided possession. Such individuals often fail to understand that genuine relationships require giving and reciprocation, and one-sided relationships are doomed to fail.
I always strive to avoid meaningless disputes and conflicts, and firmly refuse to join the ranks of slander and instigation. When facing such situations, I choose to quickly distance myself, as these matters are irrelevant to me, and I never get involved in trouble. If anyone tries to drag me down, I make it clear to those around me to stay away from individuals not worth associating with, ensuring the purity of my circle.
Moreover, I have a deep affection for the city of Boston, where the weather is pleasant and very suitable for raising children. I envision my children growing up in such an environment. Boston offers a complete set of educational resources for children, from daycare to higher education, with the only challenge possibly being financial capability.
My plan is to spend the first 12 years with my children in China learning skills to earn money. Afterward, I will work hard to save money so they can enjoy the rich educational resources of Boston. Of course, the winters here may be extremely cold, reminding me of the New England-style climate in London, England.
I also want to mention that Boston has some ancient and delicious restaurants, including an oyster restaurant frequented by President Kennedy, where the food is unforgettable.
Recently, while buying snacks for a friend’s pet dog, I was surprised by the variety available at this pet store. They have over 30 different types of dog treats to choose from. My friend considers his pet as part of the family; the dog is not only a companion for his children but also a guardian and friend for the whole family.
In Boston, I also participated in a gathering of Chinese entrepreneurs, exchanging ideas with many interesting people and broadening my horizons. This meeting allowed me to connect with Chinese people of various backgrounds, including families who made money in China to buy houses and chose to raise their children in the United States, children who have been educated in the United States since high school, and individuals who have lived in the United States for various reasons.
It is worth mentioning that the ability to speak Chinese well greatly affects one’s understanding of China. Chinese is a complex language, and for Chinese Americans who grow up in the US, learning it is a challenge. While the multiculturalism of America is a distinct feature, true diversity is not just the gathering of people from different backgrounds but should also include tolerance and understanding of diverse viewpoints and lifestyles.
In a diverse and vibrant international gathering, we can see the presence of various outstanding individuals. Among the participants, there are freelance investors who come with three children, young talents from McKinsey’s Boston office, and coordinators of study tours from Harvard and MIT.
The gathering also includes entrepreneurs, such as the owner of a large hotpot chain, a proprietress who provides banquet services for the Chinese community, and founders of a restaurant accelerator platform serving local American families and friends, promoting the development and innovation of the catering industry.
Tech elites also gather here, including experts who develop AI writing tools, managers from Uniqlo, and loyal radio listeners. Heads of study-abroad service companies, founders of medical healthcare startups, and professional engineers at Amazon, all explore additional entrepreneurial opportunities while excelling in their main careers.
The members of these gatherings are survivors who have stood firm in the fierce competition for survival and have obtained the rare privilege of residing in the United States. The experience of working in America is particularly intense, with lucrative pay and relatively shorter working hours, yet most people find it difficult to stay in the end. In such circumstances, I am very grateful for the opportunity to make money in mainland China and to be able to start a business here; if one seeks greater wealth, staying in China is still the better choice. However, I am currently considering whether to expand my business to the vast land of the United States.
That’s all for today’s sharing. Good evening, friends in America, goodbye.
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